Wednesday, January 6, 2010

HOME SWEET HOME

Hello all my Loves

Well we are officially coming home on Saturday 1/9/10. The tickets have been purchased, the bags are being packed as we speak & we are ready to be home.
We had a final conference with Dr. Paul Martin with ALOT of information-way too much to put down here. I don't know about you but I thought that I was going to come to Seattle for 3 or 4 months, have a bone marrow transplant & come home-ummm not the case. I didn't realize how compromised my immune system would be. Apparently, the next year of my life is going to be very high maintenance! 2 more days of appointments, instructions, etc. and we will be on our way. Soooo in that light we need to lay a few ground rules.

Play Dates & Socializing

We are so looking forward to seeing all of you and reconnecting in person after being away for so
long. It may take us some time so please be patient with us. This goes for returning emails, cards, telephone calls, voice mails, etc. Please, please be patient with us. For example, I know that during my first week home I will be at Jefferson for most of the day on Monday and may be going down there 2 to 3 times a week on top getting the boys back and forth to 2 different schools with different activities and just plain old being at home and with my husband and my kids. So if it takes us a awhile to respond it is not because we do not want to but it is a matter of time and energy! Also, it is imperative that if you do come over you do not have a cold, runny nose, cough, fever or even a thought that you may be getting sick. One illness lands me in the hospital indefinetly.

It is important that we don't host playdates at our house for now.
We would love to play with you it just can't be at our house for the time being.

In terms of talking about the last few months we are more than happy to talk about what we have "been through". Please choose your words wisely around David & Dominic-they are very deep thinkers and sometimes it takes me weeks before I find out what has been bothering them. Boys don't seem to want to "share" like us girls! They seem to bottle it up in there and we have to pull it out piece by piece! Seattle for these guys has been a great experience & The Hutch School was a great place for them to spend their days while I was having all of my "work" done. Their classmates were all going through similar experiences.

You have all been apart of this amazing journey with us-of which I could never have made it without you all. We are so looking for to the happier times of 2010!!! Happy New Year to all of you My Dear Friends and Family
I love you
PS And as usual - please leave your shoes at the door :)

8 comments:

  1. There's no place like home!! So happy to hear the news--wishing you a smooth and safe trip home.

    Anne & Bill

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  2. Welcome home love. Your address in this post made me smile. I am available to help you with errands etc. on Tuesdays after 930 am. Please call on me if you need help. Would you like us, your friends and family to prepare dinners for you? Has anyone set that up? Is there someone I should talk too? We will wait for you to contact us about getting together. Do not feel any pressure to see us. We completely understand and want you to take it easy and take care of yourself. Can you be around flowers?
    Have fun packing!
    Hugs and misses,
    Wendy and Tom

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  3. Yeah Jen!
    Safe trip home.
    Leigh

    Wendy-
    Please call me 215.868.9301, to prepare dinners, if you are organizing this. I would love to help with this for Jen!

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  4. Jen:
    What a wonderful milestone for you to be going home ! Congratulations!
    Ron A

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  5. Jen -
    I am in tears after reading all you have been through. I finally "friended" you on facebook and now have found what you have been going through all of these months. I think of you everytime we drive by your neighborhood, which is so often, and have missed you and always wonder how you and your family are doing. I just couldn't believe when I got my answer. However, the news is so wonderful that you are on your way home. I am so happy that this is happening. There truly is nothing better. You and Dave and the kids will savor this. I want to help you anyway I can. I don't want to add to your stress, but please let me know what I can do to assist you.

    Sending you hugs and love,
    Tricia (Connor's mom)

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  6. Jen,
    Your post made me cry I'm so happy you are coming home!!!! No rush to see or do a thing-just take care of yourself. We love you.
    Pam & Rod

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  7. We are just trilled for you that you are coming home. Family was with you but now you are close to the friends that love you and Dave. For now it is enough to know you are home and continuing on the journey. When you are up to it we are all here for you.

    Terry, Mary Anne, Patrick and Brian

    The kids felt your energy today, GNWC had a phenominal day on the mat which I am sure was because you are on your way home.

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  8. wow...i have been trying to figure out how to post a comment since i first saw this blog, and no lie i just figured it out now. i miss you and i can't wait to see you! just want you to know that i've been thinking of you every day you were gone. i think you are so strong and i'm so glad you are okay!

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